You Are The Damn Experience

The most powerful thing in the universe is a state of being and the state of being is something that you can only experience and not something to can label.

That made me reflect on myself and confirm that, yes, "I am genuinely an experience" is the best way to define who I am. It's funny because, if you know me...you know that I speak about my life and these various thoughts, questions, and ideas that may seem randomly brilliant, profoundly confusing, and utterly enchanted all at once. I have been referring to it as "PB soup," and that's how it always seems to me.

I have an artistic, philosophical side of my existence, a low-key side, a high-maintenance side, and a giving-back side. Consequently, I am a jumbled mess of conflicting qualities, much like a pot of soup.

The best way to characterize my life, however, is not "PB Soup" but rather "PB Experience." We're used to labeling ourselves partner, mother, co-worker, boss, entrepreneur, daughter, friend, parent, vegan, fit, etc., but you're more than that. As you read, you'll come to appreciate all the different facets and dimensions that make up who you are. You cannot be categorized because you are so many things and possess so much vitality. You are each of the unique iterations of yourself in each and every instant combined.

You are the damn Experience. When you embody this knowledge, you become enigmatic, unlike anyone else, because your energy is intoxicating and unlike anything people have ever experienced. It's addicting because it's distinct, fascinating, and intriguing. Your goal shouldn't be to gain a cult following, but rather to embody an entire mentality. You become a magnet for all of your manifestations, not just people, opportunities, and objects. As a result of your presence in this state, you begin to steal people's breath away.

How to we become an experience.

• Recognizing my indefinability. I don't fit a neatly labeled box.

We are divine souls living human lives. One hangout, discussion, sentence, story, or word cannot define you.

The fact that you had an odd conversation or exchange with this person does not indicate that they will not like you, that you said the wrong thing at the wrong moment, or anything else. It's one minute of your life. It doesn't define all your skills and talents. One minute cannot encompass you.

• Standing in my truth unapologetically. Knowing that authenticity is my superpower.

The easiest way to stand in your truth is to decide who you are, know who you are, and trust it. Consider yourself an adventure. "The PB Experience" was my tagline. Come up with one for yourself. Repeat it until you believe it.

• Allowing people to be themselves The same way as I allow myself to be.

letting others be open without judgment. letting them "feel" themselves. Spreading your vibes so people have joy, feel elevated, and are addicted to you.

Your confidence, energy, and outlook will change. You are then a STATE, not a label.